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Historic Charm, Willow Trees & Weddings with Everything Included

The Farmhouse is a Wilmington wedding venue in New Castle County, Delaware, offering historic estate charm, garden ceremonies, and all-inclusive wedding receptions for up to 190 guests. Set on four acres of manicured grounds, this family-owned property combines the character of a 19th-century farmhouse with modern reception spaces, onsite catering, and a surprisingly long list of wedding essentials already included.

The property has been in the Murray family since 1917 and is now operated by the fourth generation. Today, couples can exchange vows beneath sweeping willow trees, enjoy cocktails overlooking the gardens, and celebrate in a light-filled reception hall with cathedral ceilings and chandeliers.

Event Spaces & Capacity

  • Main Terrace Hall: A bright reception space featuring cathedral ceilings, skylights, hardwood floors, pewter chandeliers, and expansive bay windows overlooking the gardens. The venue accommodates up to 190 guests across its reception spaces.

  • Outdoor Ceremony Garden: A romantic setting beneath mature willow trees, featuring a wooden pergola and seating for up to 190 guests.

  • Wraparound Deck & Patio: An outdoor gathering area overlooking the gardens, ideal for cocktail hour and conversation.

  • Gazebo Bar: An outdoor bar accented with café lights, providing another gathering spot during the reception.

  • Indoor Lounge & Bar: A cozy space with a fireplace and dark wood accents where guests can mingle throughout the celebration.

  • Historic Mulberry Room: Located in the original farmhouse, this additional indoor space can be incorporated into the reception layout.

  • Wedding Party Dressing Suites: Separate upstairs and downstairs preparation areas, each with a private bathroom.

  • Estate Grounds: Four acres of gardens, mature trees, and historic architectural details for wedding portraits.

All-Inclusive Catering & Bar Service

The Farmhouse takes a refreshingly comprehensive approach to wedding planning. Its reception packages include gourmet catering prepared onsite, a premium open bar, and a professional wedding coordinator.

Couples can choose a plated dinner, buffet, or cocktail-style reception, with a cocktail hour featuring passed and stationary hors d'oeuvres. Menus are prepared by the venue's culinary team, and wedding couples may attend a tasting event to sample selections.

Wedding packages also include a custom wedding cake, banquet tables, Chiavari chairs, linens and napkins in a choice of colors, candle centerpieces, and event setup and breakdown.

Even better, the venue hosts only one wedding per day, giving couples exclusive use of the estate and its grounds during their celebration.

Why Couples Love The Farmhouse

  • Willow-Tree Ceremonies: Exchange vows beneath mature willow trees with a wooden pergola framing the ceremony space.

  • All-Inclusive Packages: Catering, premium bar service, wedding cake, coordination, linens, and centerpieces are included.

  • Family-Owned History: The property has been part of the Murray family for more than a century and is now operated by the fourth generation.

  • Indoor and Outdoor Spaces: Move from a garden ceremony to cocktails on the patio and dinner in the reception hall.

  • One Wedding Per Day: Exclusive use of the property allows couples to enjoy a private celebration.

  • Dedicated Wedding Coordinator: Professional assistance throughout planning and on the wedding day.

  • Historic Character: Original farmhouse rooms, a fireplace lounge, and architectural details add warmth and personality.

  • Wedding Night Accommodations: Packages include a complimentary overnight stay for the couple at a nearby partner hotel, with group room rates available.

  • Plenty of Photo Opportunities: Willow trees, manicured gardens, the historic farmhouse, and outdoor gathering spaces offer a variety of settings for portraits.

For couples who love historic estates, garden ceremonies, and the convenience of having so many wedding details handled in one place, The Farmhouse offers an inviting setting just outside the heart of Wilmington.

Request information or schedule a tour to see the gardens, reception spaces, and all-inclusive wedding packages.

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FAQ's

Is the facility indoor only, outdoor only, or both?

Both

Does your facility have air conditioning?

Yes

Is your facility handicapped accessible?

Yes

Will you hold dates?

No

What makes The Farmhouse in Wilmington a unique spot for a wedding?

The Farmhouse offers a charming blend of rustic elegance with its beautifully restored 19th-century mansion and sprawling grounds, giving couples a picturesque and intimate setting that's truly special.

Is there a lovely outdoor space where guests can relax during the reception?

Yes! The venue features expansive outdoor areas, including gardens and patios, perfect for mingling or enjoying the fresh air between ceremony and dinner.

Can guests enjoy a cozy evening around a fire pit at the venue?

Absolutely. Several reviews highlight the inviting fire pit areas on the property, which create a warm and memorable spot for guests to gather as the evening winds down.

Is parking convenient for guests attending weddings here?

Definitely. The Farmhouse provides ample on-site parking, making it easy and stress-free for guests to arrive and enjoy the celebration.

Are there any charming indoor spaces for getting ready or intimate moments?

Yes, the mansion has elegant rooms with classic details that many couples have loved using for bridal prep and small gatherings before the big event.

What do couples say about the overall vibe of the property?

Guests frequently mention the warm, welcoming atmosphere and how the combination of historic charm and natural beauty made their day feel truly magical.

Does the venue offer any special features that make photos stand out?

Definitely! The beautifully maintained gardens, rustic barn elements, and vintage architectural details provide stunning backdrops that photographers rave about.

Are there options nearby for guests who want to stay overnight after the celebration?

While the estate itself doesn’t have lodging, it’s conveniently located close to several hotels in Wilmington and New Castle County, making it easy for out-of-town guests to find comfortable accommodations.

Maximum capacity with dancing?

Yes, 190

Maximum capacity without dancing?

Yes, 190

Manager: Event Manager

Address: 5600 Old Capitol Trl, Wilmington, 19808

Phone: (302) 999-8477

Visit Website: http://www.thefarmhousede.com/weddings/

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