



Historic Charm, Willow Trees & Weddings with Everything Included
The Farmhouse is a Wilmington wedding venue in New Castle County, Delaware, offering historic estate charm, garden ceremonies, and all-inclusive wedding receptions for up to 190 guests. Set on four acres of manicured grounds, this family-owned property combines the character of a 19th-century farmhouse with modern reception spaces, onsite catering, and a surprisingly long list of wedding essentials already included.
The property has been in the Murray family since 1917 and is now operated by the fourth generation. Today, couples can exchange vows beneath sweeping willow trees, enjoy cocktails overlooking the gardens, and celebrate in a light-filled reception hall with cathedral ceilings and chandeliers.
Event Spaces & Capacity
Main Terrace Hall: A bright reception space featuring cathedral ceilings, skylights, hardwood floors, pewter chandeliers, and expansive bay windows overlooking the gardens. The venue accommodates up to 190 guests across its reception spaces.
Outdoor Ceremony Garden: A romantic setting beneath mature willow trees, featuring a wooden pergola and seating for up to 190 guests.
Wraparound Deck & Patio: An outdoor gathering area overlooking the gardens, ideal for cocktail hour and conversation.
Gazebo Bar: An outdoor bar accented with café lights, providing another gathering spot during the reception.
Indoor Lounge & Bar: A cozy space with a fireplace and dark wood accents where guests can mingle throughout the celebration.
Historic Mulberry Room: Located in the original farmhouse, this additional indoor space can be incorporated into the reception layout.
Wedding Party Dressing Suites: Separate upstairs and downstairs preparation areas, each with a private bathroom.
Estate Grounds: Four acres of gardens, mature trees, and historic architectural details for wedding portraits.
All-Inclusive Catering & Bar Service
The Farmhouse takes a refreshingly comprehensive approach to wedding planning. Its reception packages include gourmet catering prepared onsite, a premium open bar, and a professional wedding coordinator.
Couples can choose a plated dinner, buffet, or cocktail-style reception, with a cocktail hour featuring passed and stationary hors d'oeuvres. Menus are prepared by the venue's culinary team, and wedding couples may attend a tasting event to sample selections.
Wedding packages also include a custom wedding cake, banquet tables, Chiavari chairs, linens and napkins in a choice of colors, candle centerpieces, and event setup and breakdown.
Even better, the venue hosts only one wedding per day, giving couples exclusive use of the estate and its grounds during their celebration.
Why Couples Love The Farmhouse
Willow-Tree Ceremonies: Exchange vows beneath mature willow trees with a wooden pergola framing the ceremony space.
All-Inclusive Packages: Catering, premium bar service, wedding cake, coordination, linens, and centerpieces are included.
Family-Owned History: The property has been part of the Murray family for more than a century and is now operated by the fourth generation.
Indoor and Outdoor Spaces: Move from a garden ceremony to cocktails on the patio and dinner in the reception hall.
One Wedding Per Day: Exclusive use of the property allows couples to enjoy a private celebration.
Dedicated Wedding Coordinator: Professional assistance throughout planning and on the wedding day.
Historic Character: Original farmhouse rooms, a fireplace lounge, and architectural details add warmth and personality.
Wedding Night Accommodations: Packages include a complimentary overnight stay for the couple at a nearby partner hotel, with group room rates available.
Plenty of Photo Opportunities: Willow trees, manicured gardens, the historic farmhouse, and outdoor gathering spaces offer a variety of settings for portraits.
For couples who love historic estates, garden ceremonies, and the convenience of having so many wedding details handled in one place, The Farmhouse offers an inviting setting just outside the heart of Wilmington.
Request information or schedule a tour to see the gardens, reception spaces, and all-inclusive wedding packages.
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FAQ's
Is the facility indoor only, outdoor only, or both?
Both
Does your facility have air conditioning?
Yes
Is your facility handicapped accessible?
Yes
Manager: Event Manager
Address: 5600 Old Capitol Trl, Wilmington, 19808
Phone: (302) 999-8477
Visit Website: http://www.thefarmhousede.com/weddings/
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