Different Types of Toasts

Toasts are a time-honored tradition in group gatherings that vary according to the mood of an event. Some typical toasting opportunities include weddings, birthdays, dinner parties, and essentially any event where you assemble with friends or loved ones--especially when alcoholic beverages are served.

Just as each wedding has its own style, every toast has a unique tone that requires careful attention for a successful delivery. Here are a few different types of toasts and some helpful hints that apply to each one.



Photo credit: Delightfully Engaged (above)/Bridal Musings (inset)



The Elegant Toast:

This toast usually occurs at a wedding, political event, or formal work party. The one common denominator is that you do not know everyone…and not everyone knows you. That means that your jokes may not translate, or worse, offend. For many in attendance, your speech is their first impression of you. Therefore, it is important to remain polite and neutral. Do not make references to inside jokes. And of course, speak confidently.


The Sentimental Toast:

This kind of toast usually occurs at a family gathering or good-bye party. It is possible that not everyone in the room knows you, but they all know the guest of honor. As such, the guest of honor's reaction to your speech will dictate how the audience feels about what you say. Try to remain nostalgic and bring up good memories that the guest wouldn’t mind sharing with the crowd.


The Funny Toast:

Possibly the most fun of all toasts is the humorous one. A funny toast can happen at a friends’ gathering, a bachelor/bachelorette party or a close family event. Most rules go out the window for this toast—you are encouraged to poke fun at the guest of honor. However, it is important that you do this tastefully. Be tactful. Do not reveal past secrets. Do not compare your life to theirs. Do not talk about people who are not there. Do reminisce about stupid decisions you made together and the consequences that now seem trivial. And do offer a half-serious apology at the beginning for what is about to come, and a hug at the end to show no hard feelings. Keep this in mind: if you cannot comfortably hug the person you are joking about in public…you cannot legitimately make a funny toast about them.

Posted by Partyspace South Florida on 08/12/2013

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