The Virginia Hotel and Cottages

Elegant dining room with white-linen tables, chairs, fireplace and warm lighting at Virginia Hotel, Cape May

Cozy parlor with roaring fireplace, two upholstered chairs, side table and lamp at The Virginia Hotel, Cape May

Bride and groom kissing under a white draped arch with greenery at The Virginia Hotel and Cottages, Cape May

White Victorian hotel with wraparound porches and red entrance rug, The Virginia Hotel and Cottages, Cape May

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A Cape May Wedding Venue for an Intimate Coastal Celebration

The Virginia Hotel & Cottages is a wedding venue in Cape May, Cape May County, New Jersey, pairing Victorian architecture with dining at The Ebbitt Room and a secluded garden patio. Located on Jackson Street in the historic district, just a short walk from the beach, the hotel offers a setting for couples planning a smaller celebration with a full wedding-weekend feel.

Event Spaces & Capacity

The Virginia’s wedding settings keep the celebration intimate, with indoor dining and outdoor gathering options.

The Ebbitt Room: The hotel’s signature restaurant provides an indoor setting for a wedding meal. Its intimate wedding arrangement offers seating for up to 24 guests.
Back Garden Patio: An outdoor celebration space tucked behind the hotel, surrounded by greenery. Confirm the capacity and weather arrangements for your chosen setup.

Catering

Weddings are catered by The Ebbitt Room with menus that draw on ingredients from Cape Resorts’ own Beach Plum Farm. This connection brings locally grown produce and farm ingredients into the restaurant’s seasonal approach.

Couples work with the team to coordinate the meal and beverage arrangements for their celebration.

Guest Experience

Hotel accommodations and nearby private cottages allow couples and guests to stay close to the festivities. The main hotel offers adults-only lodging, while the cottages provide options for families and groups.

Between wedding events, guests can enjoy the front porch, explore Cape May’s historic streets, or walk down Jackson Street to the beach. The setting makes a leisurely weekend feel entirely reasonable.

Why Couples Love The Virginia Hotel

The Virginia brings together a small guest list, restaurant dining, and Cape May’s Victorian character. An indoor wedding meal or garden patio celebration keeps the gathering personal, while nearby accommodations give guests time to enjoy the town together.

Make room for a more intimate celebration at The Virginia Hotel. Inquire through PartySpace to explore wedding arrangements, dining options, and available dates.

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Average temperature at 6 PM - 60.1°F Average In October for the past 3 years Source: National Centers for Environmental Information (NCEI)

FAQ's

Is the facility indoor only, outdoor only, or both?

Both

Onsite lodging?

Yes, 24

Does your facility have air conditioning?

Yes

Maximum capacity with dancing?

Yes, 75

Maximum capacity without dancing?

Yes, 75

Is your facility handicapped accessible?

Yes

Will you hold dates?

Minimum Pricing per person range?

Yes, 135

Maximum Pricing per person range?

Yes, 135

What makes The Virginia Hotel and Cottages a unique spot for a Cape May wedding?

The Virginia Hotel and Cottages offers a charming blend of historic elegance and seaside vibes right in the heart of Cape May. Couples love the beautiful mansion setting paired with cozy cottages, giving both a stunning backdrop and comfortable lodging all in one place.

Can guests stay overnight at the venue after the celebration?

Yes! One of the best perks is that the property includes charming cottages where guests can stay. It makes the whole weekend feel like a cozy retreat without having to leave the estate.

Is there a lovely outdoor area for mingling or photos?

Absolutely, the estate features beautiful outdoor spaces perfect for cocktail hours, mingling, or capturing those dreamy wedding photos with Cape May’s historic charm in the background.

Are there any special features that couples rave about from their experience here?

Many couples mention how much they appreciated the intimate, welcoming vibe of the mansion and cottages, which made their day feel both elegant and relaxed—a rare combo that's hard to find!

Does the venue offer any cozy spots to hang out during the reception?

Yes, the property includes inviting fire pits where guests can gather around, chat, and enjoy a warm, relaxed atmosphere during the evening.

How easy is parking for guests coming to the wedding?

Guests find parking convenient with dedicated spaces right on the property, which simplifies arrivals and departures, especially for those staying overnight.

Can the historic mansion be used for both the ceremony and the reception?

Definitely! The mansion provides elegant indoor spaces that are flexible enough to host both ceremonies and receptions, allowing couples to keep everything in one beautifully styled spot.

What’s one thing couples highlight about the venue after their wedding day?

Couples often mention how the venue’s warm and inviting setting helped make their celebration feel personal and memorable, with plenty of cozy corners for guests to connect and relax.