The Virginia Hotel and Cottages

Elegant dining room with white-linen tables, chairs, fireplace and warm lighting at Virginia Hotel, Cape May

Cozy parlor with roaring fireplace, two upholstered chairs, side table and lamp at The Virginia Hotel, Cape May

Bride and groom kissing under a white draped arch with greenery at The Virginia Hotel and Cottages, Cape May

White Victorian hotel with wraparound porches and red entrance rug, The Virginia Hotel and Cottages, Cape May

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A 24-ROOM BOUTIQUE HOTEL IN THE HEART OF HISTORIC CAPE MAY

Intimate Weddings by the Sea

The Virginia Hotel provides the perfect intimate space to celebrate your special day, indoors at the Ebbitt Room dining room or outdoors on the back garden patio. If you dream of a wedding by the sea, begin your story at this charming and impeccably-restored 1879 landmark boutique hotel in Cape May, New Jersey.

History combines with modern-day amenities and superior service to provide a romantic and intimate experience. With luxury accommodations including private cottages, welcoming guest rooms, state-of-the art facilities on-site and nearby as well as top-tier personal attention from our wedding team, we can help you make your wedding in Cape May everything you dream of.

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FAQ's

Is the facility indoor only, outdoor only, or both?

Both

Onsite lodging?

Yes, 24

Does your facility have air conditioning?

Yes

Maximum capacity with dancing?

Yes, 75

Maximum capacity without dancing?

Yes, 75

Is your facility handicapped accessible?

Will you hold dates?

Minimum Pricing per person range?

Yes, 135.00

Maximum Pricing per person range?

Yes, 135.00

What makes The Virginia Hotel and Cottages a unique spot for a Cape May wedding?

The Virginia Hotel and Cottages offers a charming blend of historic elegance and seaside vibes right in the heart of Cape May. Couples love the beautiful mansion setting paired with cozy cottages, giving both a stunning backdrop and comfortable lodging all in one place.

Can guests stay overnight at the venue after the celebration?

Yes! One of the best perks is that the property includes charming cottages where guests can stay. It makes the whole weekend feel like a cozy retreat without having to leave the estate.

Is there a lovely outdoor area for mingling or photos?

Absolutely, the estate features beautiful outdoor spaces perfect for cocktail hours, mingling, or capturing those dreamy wedding photos with Cape May’s historic charm in the background.

Are there any special features that couples rave about from their experience here?

Many couples mention how much they appreciated the intimate, welcoming vibe of the mansion and cottages, which made their day feel both elegant and relaxed—a rare combo that's hard to find!

Does the venue offer any cozy spots to hang out during the reception?

Yes, the property includes inviting fire pits where guests can gather around, chat, and enjoy a warm, relaxed atmosphere during the evening.

How easy is parking for guests coming to the wedding?

Guests find parking convenient with dedicated spaces right on the property, which simplifies arrivals and departures, especially for those staying overnight.

Can the historic mansion be used for both the ceremony and the reception?

Definitely! The mansion provides elegant indoor spaces that are flexible enough to host both ceremonies and receptions, allowing couples to keep everything in one beautifully styled spot.

What’s one thing couples highlight about the venue after their wedding day?

Couples often mention how the venue’s warm and inviting setting helped make their celebration feel personal and memorable, with plenty of cozy corners for guests to connect and relax.